be honest
even when it would be easier to stay quiet

be understanding
because everyone is carrying something unseen

be loyal
not only to others
but to your own values

be truthful
even when your voice shakes

be open minded
let the world be bigger than your assumptions

be thoughtful
with your words
they live longer than you think

be considerate
empathy is a quiet power

be reliable
be someone who keeps their promises

be mature
choose growth over ego

be kind
especially when it is inconvenient

be friendly
warmth changes rooms

be happy
or at least allow yourself the chance to be

be unselfish
but not at the cost of your own peace

be cheerful
find light where you can

be broad minded
curiosity keeps you alive

be tactful
truth does not need cruelty

be appreciative
notice the small mercies

be respectful
to others
and to yourself

be grateful
even for lessons disguised as loss

be observant
there is meaning in the details

be lively
let your spirit move freely

be creative
turn your life into art

but most important

be yourself

not a diluted version
not a quieter version
not the version that fits someone else’s comfort

just you
fully
without apology